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Author: bobisworried Subject: very distressed

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Registered: 12-04-2014
Location: AZ

posted on 12-04-2014 at 23:08 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
very distressed

Hello to everyone. I need a little honest and sound advise.
A little bit about me.
I am 46, and yep a virgin. I have had limited sexual experience. I have had 5 opportunities to lose my virginity but could not. I was very nervous.
I grew up very overweight, with extreme abusive parents, negative religious views, crippling views of women and as a result, very shy.
I have lost a lot of weight and almost normal looking. I am male and average looking. I have come a long way in the last year.
I can ask girls on dates and that is fairly easy. I am terrified of sex. I have tons of hang ups. Virginity the main one, it is a huge source of shame and a huge cross. I feel condemned by this fact.
My question is this. Is it too late for me to find a girl friend who I being a virgin will not care about that?
And if so, how do I bring that up in conversation? I can not tell you how distressing this is to me.
Please be helpful without smart ass remarks and please don't say things like ohh you will find her one day, remember I'm 46 and that one day is coming very close to being over. So please be real and honest.
Thank you to all that would answer.
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