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Author: Zest Subject: is porn a negative thing
arronbond
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posted on 03-15-2006 at 15:35 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
is porn a negative thing

now dont get me wrong i ask this question because i feel its an issue in the world today that porn has a negative affect on sexuallity i mean i was buying porn in school at like 12 13 years old but now any one any were can download as much as they want and some of its pretty graphic i feel for obvious reasons seeong the size of these blokes makes people feel insecure i think this used to affect me really bad now im not the type of person top wait tilll marrige but i willl respect that if thats for you so i just wanted top know if people think porn has had a negative affect on them or the world im not aganist porn but i just wanted to know what peoples veiw on porn is thank you alll for reading
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posted on 03-16-2006 at 02:20 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Pornography

Pornography is only wrong if you feel it is. To each his own. It sounds like a copout, but it's how I feel. I would never think less of someone because they watched pornography. As long as you're not harming yourself or anyone else, I see absolutely nothing wrong with it.

Now, if you're asking if it has negative effects, that's a different story. I think it can. I think that it can cause insecurity, but the same can be said of many parts of our society. You can get the same kind of insecurity from picking up a magazine or watching an ordinary movie.

The only time I might question someone's interest in pornography is if said person was in an intimate relationship. I think it might cause the other party to feel inadequate if not dealt with properly.

Does that make sense, or do I just sound like a blithering idiot? lol
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posted on 03-17-2006 at 15:08 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Porno!

I lyke to watch porn with my friends, we watch it allt he time. But what is with the "money shot"? I think that is immmoral and wrong.
My friend told me that her dream was to have a man kersplode all over her face n chest.... thats so wrong I cant belieeve it.
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posted on 03-21-2006 at 11:57 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
fuck you

the first post ye i think your making a point but the second one was posted by fucking morons (moneyshot) fuck you well you see i mean good your assuming what i mean if you dont know ask me and if you dont like it so what its my right
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posted on 03-21-2006 at 16:15 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Money money money money.... MONEY!

The only information I got from your post wuz that you must lyke money shots.

And lyke, why must you be so hostile to me? I wuz only stating something I believeddd... jeeez. You should lyke take a chill pill or something dude.
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posted on 03-22-2006 at 16:59 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
again fuck you

no to stop being hostile is to let my guard down and your all against me
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posted on 03-22-2006 at 23:47 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
alright

alright jeez relax, you like the money shot, thats cool. wuteva floats your boat.
I will make you a t shirt that says "I lyke the money shot and I'm okay with that!".
Good for you!
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posted on 03-23-2006 at 05:21 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
no need 4 ant more

you dont know me ha lol you make me laugh prick see ya pathetic again ha
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posted on 04-18-2006 at 12:49 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Porn

There are several things "wrong" with porn, especially for viewers that have not been in a sexual relationship. Porn is made to sell and so usually consists of unrealistic situations and expectations. Just to mention a few myths that seem to be promoted by porn:

1) The woman always has an orgasm from PIV sex
2) The woman always wants/enjoys anal sex.
3) The woman always wants him to ejaculate on her.
4) The guy can "go" for hours at a time.
5) The woman always wants oral sex.
6) Thw woman is alway "ready to go" and needs no foreplay.

Anyway, you can learn some things from porn, such as different positions. But there are many books and videos that are instructional that are much better for teaching about sex.
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posted on 04-19-2006 at 14:43 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
finally

ok finnally some with a brain and the guts to say an opinion thata real si hay hope you read this mate have you got msn i think talking to ya could be interesting add me bottom11@hotmail.co.uk laters mate
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posted on 04-21-2006 at 19:07 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
NNO

HELL NO!! It's fun looking at people bitchin it up out there. Squishing thier breasts!!
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posted on 05-18-2006 at 16:18 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
k

ok mate
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posted on 06-10-2006 at 11:01 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Yes and no.

Later reply probably... Never checked the posting date. Sue me.

As to my view... To an extent.

Porn depicts the act of sex in a very bizzarre, unrealistic way which doesn't even replicate the real act.

Even being a virgin myself and having spoken about it at length and reading about stuff related to sex, it's just plain old common sense. People need to be objective...

As Igor pointed out, pornography is unrealistic for the reasons pointed out.

In terms of what it represents - quick relief which appeals more to a male mind. We prefer more visual stimulis than women, where as women prefer more mental stimulation and foreplay to get them in the mood.

Watching too much of it I think is bad because it gives someone a very altered perspective on sex, a resentful one even.

Watching too much is bound to lower your libido, since you probably stand to drain it with too much masturbation.

Try going without it for a fortnight and I bet you'll find you're a lot more energetic and naturally horny. You're probably more inclined to go outside the house and search for partners that way...
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posted on 09-18-2006 at 19:45 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Warped

'There are several things "wrong" with porn, especially for viewers that have not been in a sexual relationship. Porn is made to sell and so usually consists of unrealistic situations and expectations. Just to mention a few myths that seem to be promoted by porn:

1) The woman always has an orgasm from PIV sex
2) The woman always wants/enjoys anal sex.
3) The woman always wants him to ejaculate on her.
4) The guy can "go" for hours at a time.
5) The woman always wants oral sex.
6) Thw woman is alway "ready to go" and needs no foreplay.

Anyway, you can learn some things from porn, such as different positions. But there are many books and videos that are instructional that are much better for teaching about sex.'

I AGREE!

I believe that porn gives a warped view of sex. First of all, half of those hoes have huge vaginal holes that you have to have a king kong dingaling to pleasure-sorry for all you shy people. The moaning is so fake and rehearsed. I don't know how people get off on that ish. I feel sorry for pornstars, particularly female pornstars-they waste one of the greatest pleasures on earth for the mighty green dollar. Bad show!
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posted on 11-10-2006 at 18:33 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
wham bam thank you ???

very good points made by every1.. yer, i think it has made me feel really insecure, this feels so strange to say... i mean.. i remember i stopped wanking for like 6 weeks.. i felt great, then it got to much and i got sucked in again, to wanking i mean.. but i did have a lot of personal problems at the time.. they stil bother me, but them people are now out of the equation.. physically anyway... stil bug my mind quite a lot... anyway.. this aint here for me to talk about problems... basically, i think that reading this has put my views about porn back where they were and how they should b... anyway.. good points, tnx for some reasuring and informative view points.... and just for the record.. wtf is a moneyshot? thanks
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